How to Make Any Girl Want to Kiss You

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imagesGirls can be so confusing! How do you know if she wants to kiss you, and if you’re not sure, how do you get her to want to kiss you, and let you know? Well here is advice that is sure to get that girl kissing you! Pucker up!


  1. 1

    Start by asking a girl to hang out, just the two of you. Pick a low-key activity that you can do together. If the two of you are having fun, it could slip into a kiss. It could be anything, like watching a movie, studying, getting dinner, or going snowboarding, or going for a swim.

2. Stay kissable! Make sure you have brushed your teeth (regularly), taken mints, or chewed gum before seeing her. If you even manage to get close enough without her holding her nose, bad breath can totally ruin a kiss!

3. Send signals. At some point while you are together, touch her lightly on her arm or hand. This should tell her that you like her.

  • Let her know you think she’s special. Compliment her on her looks, her style, her humor—let her know the things you like about her. If she compliments back, move a little closer to her.
  • If she leans in, put your arm around her.
  • If you two are positioned correctly for this (e.g., cuddling on the couch) and if you are really bold, put your hand on her thigh and move it down towards her ankle. Make sure you judge her response to your previous hints accurately before you attempt this.

4. Focus! Look in her eyes and then briefly look at her lips. Make sure she is looking at you when you do this, and make sure you are smiling.

5. Know if she wants to kiss. If she takes the hints and flirts back, lean in for a kiss. Don’t pucker up—no fish face! Relax. If she leans away, then pull away too. You may want to put your hands on her shoulders.

6. If the kiss is successful, you might want to try some of the following;

    • Open your mouth wider but not too wide, and slip your tongue in her mouth. Try touching her lips with your tongue. If she responds, touch her tongue with yours.
    • Rub her lower back.
    • For the really bold, start to lean backwards so she is almost directly on top of you. Rub in between her thighs and pull up to her head.
     7. End with a nice long hug and tell her how amazing she is (as a person, not just at kissing).


  • Increase the passion of a kiss by touch. Try gently holding the back of her head or the neck, running your fingers through her hair and rubbing her back as you kiss.
  • Learn different types of kissing so you can vary the motions. Kissing the same way all the time can get boring!
  • After you’ve been kissing for a while, you may want to increase the intensity of the kiss by touching her inner thighs or on her breast. Stop if she moves away or indicates that the touching is too much for her.
  • Kiss in new locations—like the park, or the zoo, or behind the potato chip display at the deli. It makes them more meaningful and romantic.



ABOUT: Nana Kwesi Coomson

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A Freelance Journalist, Entrepreneur and Philanthropist. Editor-in-Chief of A contributory writer for Ghanaian Chronicle Newspaper. An alumnus of Adisadel College where he read General Arts. He holds first degree in Bachelor of Arts from the University of Ghana; Political Science (major) and History (minor). He has also pursued MSc Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) and Energy with Public Relations (PR) at the Robert Gordon University in the United Kingdom. His mentors are Rupert Murdoch, Warren Buffet, Sam Jonah, Kwaku Sakyi Addo and Piers Morgan

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