Signs of a cheating patner

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images (3)Your partner or spouse…

  • Appears distant, show a lack of interest
  • Is frequently tired or lack interest in the relationship.
  • Comes home smelling of an unfamiliar fragrance.
  • Wears cologne much more often than usual.
  • Arrives home and heads straight into the shower/bath.
  • Gets dressed up a little too well
  • Begins to speak more and more harshly to you, or are more sarcastic.
  • Asks about your schedule more often than usual.
  • Develops an increased focus on losing weight or pays more attention to their appearance.
  • Stops wearing his wedding ring
  • Is no longer interested in sex or  starts to request kinky or other erotic sexual activity that you’ve never done before, including watching porn
  • Shows a “new talent” in the bedroom (that they might have learned from the individual with whom they’ve been cheating)
  • Appears reluctant to kiss you, or show affection toward you.
  • Criticizes you for showing him attention.
  • Work longer hours, more frequently…and keep you from viewing his paycheck/pay-stubs
  • Changes his established routine with no apparent reason
  • Begins discouraging you from calling him at work
  • Is often “unavailable” when you try to call him at work.
  • Returns calls long after you leave a message for him.
  • Prefers to attend work functions (or any events) alone
  • Takes more trips for business reasons and even refuses to let you drive him to the airport.
  • Receives “mysterious” phone calls.
  • You get an increasing number of hang-ups or “wrong numbers” when you pick up the phone.
    • especially if the caller hangs up after hearing your voice and doesn’t speak. Woman CheatingGenerally when a person dials a “wrong” number, they will at least ask, “Is Fred there?” before hanging up (though not always).
    • Phone bills that show unexplained toll or long distance charges.
    • Hurriedly picks up the phone to answer it before you do.
    • Leaves the room to talk on the phone.
    • Whispers while on the phone.
    • Suddenly need a cell phone (or pager) and discourages you from looking at or using the phone or pager.
    • Deletes numbers from “caller ID”.
    • Behaves differently or ends the telephone calls abruptly when you enter the room. Or appears to hang up quickly.
    • Credit card receipts for gifts you didn’t receive.
    • An increase in ATM withdrawals.
    • Credit card receipts showing purchases from places unknown to you or that seem suspect
    • Rushes to get the mail before you do.
    • Gets a separate P.O. Box.
    • Unusual phone numbers appearing on the bill.
    • The duration and time of the calls appear excessive.
    • Is secretive about his cell phone bill and starts to pay it himself.
    • You notice business travel or other deductions for travel or other expenses that you were unaware of.
    • The passenger’s seat is adjusted differently than you had left it.Caught Cheating
    • Taking child seat out of the car for no particular reason.
    • Finding suspicious items like phone numbers, receipts, lipstick, condoms or strange hairs in the vehicle.
    • Keeping a change of clothes in the trunk.
    • Warily guards access to his computer.
    • Shuts down the computer as you walk into the room
    • Adds password protection his computer.
    • Stays up to “work” on the computer long after you’ve gone to bed.
    • Has unusual sites showing in the “browser history”, or erases them after each late-night session.
    • Deletes email message more frequently

    If you answered yes to any of these questions, you need to learn the truth TODAY!. These are all signs of a cheater. You should NOT ignore these signs.

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A Freelance Journalist, Entrepreneur and Philanthropist. Editor-in-Chief of www.233times.com. A contributory writer for Ghanaian Chronicle Newspaper. An alumnus of Adisadel College where he read General Arts. He holds first degree in Bachelor of Arts from the University of Ghana; Political Science (major) and History (minor). He has also pursued MSc Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) and Energy with Public Relations (PR) at the Robert Gordon University in the United Kingdom. He is a 2018 Mandela Washington Fellow (YALI) who studied at Clark Atlanta University on the Business and Entrepreneurship track. His mentors are Rupert Murdoch, Warren Buffet, Sam Jonah, Kwaku Sakyi Addo and Piers Morgan

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