The art of seduction texting; tips on how to text a girl and make her like you

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download (1)Did you finally get the cell phone number of the woman that you have been eyeing for a while? Are you on top of the world, but aren’t exactly sure how to phrase your first text to her in order to convince her to go out on a date with you in the end? Of course, you don’t want to ruin anything, so here are several patented tips that can help you increase your chances of getting that woman to go out with you –just by seducing her through text.

One of the first things that our new Baltimore Seduction Lair members learn is to how to master the art of texting. It’s important to remember that texting is a great gateway for you to know a girl better! In fact, if you want to know how to flirt with a girl, you have to know how to use the art of seduction texting to your favour.

Five Tips On How To Text Her

  • Tip #1: Just Text Her… Apply The Three Second Rule!

There is absolutely no reason why you should overthink things or wait too long before texting a woman that you like. In fact, if a woman gives you her phone number, there will only be one reason behind it: she wants you to get in touch with her. So, what are you waiting for? It’s not like you need all the right, perfect words to make her your girlfriend in an instant. Just get in touch with her. Apply the three second rule. ;)

Make sure you keep your text message short and sweet, though. A simple text won’t just let her know that you are thinking about her and her well-being, but it will require her to respond as well.

But caution: your first text is often the most important simply because if it sucks, then it’s practically game over for you. Therefore, you must always get this right, the first time!

To make sure that I don’t mess it up, I like to “embed” certain hypnotic phrases in my first text: it’s something that I learned from Derek Rake when I studied under him for a couple of years. I’ll tell you more about this later, but it involves using this technique called “fractionation”.

  • Tip #2: Make Her Miss You.

Once you have started texting each other for a while, you can start to lay low eventually and stop replying to all of her texts.

This means that, if you aren’t too interested in her latest text, then don’t reply to it. Just lay low for the day and try texting her again the next day as if nothing had ever happened.

Picture of a girl texting her boyfriend (or girlfriend - in case she's a lesbian or bisexual)

The way to her heart is through her cellphone. ;)

  • Tip #3: Use Emoticons to Your Advantage.

Regardless of how playful and funny you may in real life, it may be hard to convey that playfulness and that humor through text. What you might not realize, though, is that you can use different emoticons to help you out when it comes to this. (Check SIBG regularly– we might as well do a specific post about this, soon!)

Be creative and try inventing some of your own emoticons while you’re at it, so she can ask you about them and know exactly what message you are trying to convey to her each time.

  • Tip #4: Practice Perfect Timing.

Believe it or not, timing every text before sending it would be vital in this department. Yahoo actually had an interesting article about this– click here to find out what’s the biggest texting turn-off for men and women.:)

Additionally, if she takes five minutes to reply to one of your texts, for example, you should try and time your response to five minutes after her texts, too. Ideally, you should take your time most of the time and keep her guessing if you will ever respond or not. This is sure to drive her crazy!

Now, while it may be true that perfect timing can definitely help you out when seducing a woman through text, there are other things that you will need to do, too. Try to keep busy, for instance, and meet other women on the side (read this handy guide if you need help). If you keep busy, then you won’t worry too much about whether a woman is texting you or not. You will just enjoy the journey overall.:)

  • Tip #5: Use Fractionation.

Earlier in this guide I had mentioned about using fractionation over text. I have reserved this technique to the end because if you’ve read this far, you deserve this. :)

While most acknowledge the power of fractionation when used in face-to-face situations, some are downright skeptical on whether the technique could be used effectively over text. We have tested this over 1,000 interactions with women, and the answer is a resounding YES. Women seem to be wired the same way everywhere, and it seems that they respond to “embedded hypnotic commands” rather well too when delivered over text.

This means that we recommend using fractionation over text (and also through email and Facebook messages if you are wondering). Now if you are still unfamiliar with the technique, download this free guide here –


ABOUT: Nana Kwesi Coomson

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A Freelance Journalist, Entrepreneur and Philanthropist. Editor-in-Chief of A contributory writer for Ghanaian Chronicle Newspaper. An alumnus of Adisadel College where he read General Arts. He holds first degree in Bachelor of Arts from the University of Ghana; Political Science (major) and History (minor). He has also pursued MSc Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) and Energy with Public Relations (PR) at the Robert Gordon University in the United Kingdom. His mentors are Rupert Murdoch, Warren Buffet, Sam Jonah, Kwaku Sakyi Addo and Piers Morgan

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