10 things men do wrong in bed

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BAD bedmaticsMany men don’t know all of the #things that they do wrong in bed. They can’t stop talking about sex and they assume they’re the best out there. They boast about their bedroom skills, but they’re truly clueless as to what they’re doing wrong. #Read on to discover the 10 things men do wrong in bed.

 

  1. Pay Attention

Women love foreplay. We consider it to be an essential part of sex. We adore being kissed and explored. When you don’t indulge us with foreplay, we feel like we’re being ripped off. Skipping foreplay is one of the major things men do wrong in #bed. It makes sex feel rushed. Of course there are times when we get caught up in the moment, and foreplay isn’t a real concern. When that happens, it’s totally awesome. But, when #foreplay is regularly omitted, however, we’re not happy. Spend #time kissing and caressing us, please.

 

 

 

  1. Don’t Assume Anything

 

Just because you were satisfied, you can’t assume that we were too. Unless you made a conscious effort to make it pleasurable for us, it very well may not have been. Not all women orgasm easily, and some need some extra assistance.

 

 

  1. Avoid Being Boring

Women have fantasies. We’ve #read «50 Shades of Grey» and we loved it. In fact, we gossip about sex just as much as you do, if not more. So, explore our fantasies. Ask us what we like and what we’ve always wanted to try.

 

 

 

  1. Make Sure You’re Manscaping

 

Manscaping is important. For some #women, it’s a necessity. It’s just as significant to us as shaving our #legs is to you.

 

  1. Being Predictable Isn’t Cool

 

Sex should never be predictable. #Women don’t want to have sex in the same position, over and over again. We like #things to be spiced up.

 

 

  1. Not Being an Oral Sex Fan

 

Going downtown is an absolute necessity — plain and simple, no explanation needed. It should be something you do very frequently because you know we love it.

 

 

  1. Actress of the Year

It’s a man’s job to know a woman’s #body. #Men should know their woman’s likes and dislikes so sex can be as enjoyable as possible. As a talented lover, you’re supposed to know if she’s faking it.

 

 

  1. Time is NOT of the Essence

 

Coffee lines, doctor’s visits, and DMV appointments are all #things that should be VERY quick. Sex, on the other hand, shouldn’t be. Some men have trouble lasting long enough for their #partner to enjoy herself. You never want to be one of those #men! Don’t put a #time limit on how long sex should be. There’s no universal average, as all #women have different preferences, but it should be long enough to be pleasurable for both of you.

 

 

  1. Be the Man

 

Sometimes, we want our men to demonstrate that they’re manly #men. We like to be dominated and pushed up against walls.

 

 

  1. Don’t Rush It

 

After sex, many #women feel emotional. Our bodies release oxytocin, which can make us feel extra needy. If you’re in a rush to go somewhere after sex, and you don’t have a few minutes to cuddle, you’re probably going to hurt our feelings. Stay with us and give us a few extra minutes of love.

Sex should always be enjoyable between two people. Do you have anything to add to the list of things men do wrong in #bed?

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