You know, of course, what you like about another’s person ability to be funny. But have you considered exactly why this quality makes YOU desirable?
A good sense of humor makes you highly attractive because it …
Expresses your unique perspective on life:
Humour says a lot about your outlook and attitude— which is hopefully positive and upbeat.
Is one of the best flirting strategies:
As actress Nia Vardalos said, “Compliment a woman and, sure, she will smile. But make a woman laugh, and she may get naked.”
Makes up for personal weaknesses:
If you consider yourself average or below average in some way–(and who doesn’t?)–realise that a great sense of humour more than compensates. It’s sexy.
Reveals your good heart:
Since much of modern humour is sarcastic and cynical, your playful style will show that you’re kind.
Points to having an agreeable personality:
A big part of what it means to be personable is the ability to joke and share funny moments with others.
Makes known your interest in the other person:
Humour is often used as a “barometer” to gauge level of attraction and interest.
Your engaged response to your date’s humour (and vice versa) is a good sign of chemistry.
Provides evidence of your sharp mind:
People with a quick wit are typically bright and clever.
Demonstrates that you are willing to be vulnerable:
Attempting to be funny takes guts–you risk your joke falling flat.
Puts the other person at ease:
Laughing together reduces anxiety and fosters relaxation. That will create the conditions to get better acquainted.
Assures your date that you are a happy person:
Having a lighthearted approach to life makes for happy individuals—and of course happy individuals make happy romantic couples.
Indicates compatibility in a vital area:
You know you’ve clicked with someone when you laugh at the same things.
When disagreements arise, a light touch can lower the tension so you can resolve the matter efficiently.
Shows that you don’t take yourself too seriously:
Self-deprecating humor lets your date know you can make fun at yourself.
Displays a quality that contributes to the health of a relationship:
Laughter and levity contribute numerous therapeutic elements to a long-term relationship.
Invites the other person to join in the fun:
When you act playful, you encourage your date to do the same. You allow him/her to share the spotlight—which will be much appreciated.
A Freelance Journalist, Entrepreneur and Philanthropist. Editor-in-Chief of www.233times.com. A contributory writer for Ghanaian Chronicle Newspaper. An alumnus of Adisadel College where he read General Arts. He holds first degree in Bachelor of Arts from the University of Ghana; Political Science (major) and History (minor). He has also pursued MSc Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) and Energy with Public Relations (PR) at the Robert Gordon University in the United Kingdom. His mentors are Rupert Murdoch, Warren Buffet, Sam Jonah, Kwaku Sakyi Addo and Piers Morganview all posts by: Nana Kwesi Coomson
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