15 Clear signs a guy is blowing you off

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There are lots of signs a guy is blowing you off, but you might not realize them all. 

If you’ve ever had your crush say that he was too busy to see you or if you’ve ever had your guy friend tell you that he was going to call you back and didn’t, it could be a sign your guy is blowing you off! 

So girls, you ready to be able to tell when you are being blown off? 

Below, I’ve got the top 9 signs a guy is blowing you off!

1. Never answers his phone

One clear sign a guy is blowing you off that a lot of women actually overlook is when a man never, ever answers his phone. 

Do you constantly find yourself getting his voicemail? Have you gone to voicemail directly without the phone even ringing? 

That’s a sign ladies and one that you should take seriously. This is especially true if it’s your crush or even your boyfriend.

2. Too busy to go out with you

If your crush is constantly stating that he is just too busy to make plans, or that he is too busy to go to dinner or a movie with you, it could be a clear sign he is blowing you off. 

Ladies, if a guy really likes you, he’ll make time for you and make sure that he gets in touch with you. 

You should never be waiting on a guy and shouldn’t have to worry if he is going to be too busy to hang out with you.

3. Never confirms plans

Another tell-tale sign a guy is blowing you off is that he never, ever confirmed plans with you. 

He might not state that he is busy, but he is constantly telling you that he has to check his schedule or that he has to make sure that he is free. 

He never allows himself to confirm plans on the spot or even at a later date.

4. Never ready to be in a relationship

Have you been hanging out with a guy that you thought liked you, but he keeps stating that he is just not ready to be in a relationship, that he is not ready to have a girlfriend? Well girls that could be a clear sign your guy is blowing you off. 

He might just not be ready to be in a relationship with you or maybe, he just doesn’t like you that way. 

Remember that you’ve got to consider that option too!

5. Talks about other girls all the time

Does your crush constantly talk about girls to his friends? Does he constantly discuss how hot that girl from last night was? 

This alone could be a clear sign your guy is blowing you off and maybe just doesn’t want to admit that he just isn’t into you. 

No guy who is really interested in a girl is going to constantly be talking about other girls.

6. He ‘checks in’ on Facebook with other groups of friends

So let’s say that you’ve made plans with your guy and he’s finally confirmed. The night of the date, he cancels and then later, you see him checking in using Facebook or Four Square with some of his other friends. 

That’s a sign he is blowing you off girls! After all, why wouldn’t he want to invite you?

7. If he calls back, it takes over 24 hours

Let’s say that you’ve called the guy you like multiple times to confirm plans or even just to talk. 

If it takes over 24 hours for the guy to even get in touch with you via text, Facebook or by calling, it can be a sign he is blowing you off. 

How long do you typically wait to call your crush back if he does manage to call you? Right away, typically? 

If the guy likes you, he’ll find a way to get in touch with you, quickly.

8. He only calls you first when he’s drunk

Are you constantly the one that is making the effort and always the one that calls first? Well girls that could be a sign that he’s just blowing you off. Maybe, once in a while, he does call, but it always seems when he needs a ride or when he is completely wasted and he is drunk dialling. That’s not a good sign.

9. He leaves you wondering

This is one of those signs that can leave you wondering about his actions, leave you wondering if he does like you and if he does care at all about you. If a guy wants you, you’ll know it and you shouldn’t ever be left wondering.

10. Distracted when he is with you

When you do finally pin him down for plans, does he constantly seem distracted? Is he looking at his phone more than you? 

This isn’t something that should be happening if he is into you!

11. Doesn’t like to be alone with you

How about being alone with him? Does it happen…? Probably not, right? That’s because he feels more comfortable when you two are with a crowd of people versus being alone. 

That is a sign that he isn’t into you and that maybe he is blowing you off completely.

12. No flirting at all

How is the flirting? Not really there, right? Well, that’s probably because he is more interested in the girl that is across the bar versus you. 

It’s hard to hear, but it is something that you should really consider, so you can move on and find someone that isn’t going to blow you off!

13. Acts disinterested

While him being distracted and him being disinterested seem the same, they aren’t. Are you always the first to text him? 

Always the first to ask about his day? Keep that in mind, because truthfully, that’s a sign that he’s not only not into you, but he is completely blowing you off!

14. Not into how your day was

While you might want to find out exactly how his day was and what he did that day, if he doesn’t provide you with the same questions or act at all interested in how your day was, why try to get with him? Why try to even ask him any questions?

15. Doesn’t ask opened ended questions

Finally, open ended questions are important when you are trying to be together or even trying to form a friendship or a relationship. 

If he isn’t asking those questions, you need to move on and find someone that isn’t going to constantly blow you off.

Now that you know all of the signs he is blowing you off, you’ll be able to spot it! 

ABOUT: Nana Kwesi Coomson

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A Freelance Journalist, Entrepreneur and Philanthropist. Editor-in-Chief of www.233times.com. A contributory writer for Ghanaian Chronicle Newspaper. An alumnus of Adisadel College where he read General Arts. He holds first degree in Bachelor of Arts from the University of Ghana; Political Science (major) and History (minor). He has also pursued MSc Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) and Energy with Public Relations (PR) at the Robert Gordon University in the United Kingdom. He is a 2018 Mandela Washington Fellow (YALI) who studied at Clark Atlanta University on the Business and Entrepreneurship track. His mentors are Rupert Murdoch, Warren Buffet, Sam Jonah, Kwaku Sakyi Addo and Piers Morgan

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