At first, you thought your boyfriend could be your soulmate. Now, you’ve started to wonder, “Is he the one?”
There’s no question you care about your boyfriend. You love him. But how do you know when you’re in love with your forever guy?
It’s easy to fall in love with love. The adrenaline rush is addictive. But once the honeymoon stage of a relationship has ended, many women develop worries about whether or not their boyfriend is for keeps.
Some say, “You’ll just know when he’s ‘the one’.” But the truth is, there is a lot of chatter in your mind about others’ expectations, old patterns of behavior, or limiting beliefs about your worth, so you can’t always hear your intuition.
And love isn’t neat and tidy, which can confuse you further. Maybe you have different personality types or some hurdle — like distance, health, finances or family — to overcome.
So how do you know when you’re in love with your soulmate?
Take these 3 steps to answer that nagging question, “Is he the one?”, and end your paralyzing doubts for good.
1. Figure out what you need and want in a soulmate
First, you need to figure out what you want in a mate and a relationship. Without thinking about your current partner, consider the ideal qualities, values, and behaviors, as well as your relationship deal-breakers.
2. Ask yourself, “Is he the one?”, and open your heart to the answers
Once you’ve reassessed what you want in a soulmate, you can objectively and intuitively assess how right you are for each other.
Take some time to yourself to sit quietly to help you hear your heart’s wisdom. Meditate for 5 minutes or find a comfortable place and do some deep breathing to get centered. Repeat a few affirmations, such as “I am worthy,” and “I will get my answers.”
Ask yourself if your guy is really the one for you. Close your eyes, and let your thoughts come and go without judgment. Keep a notebook handy to jot down whatever comes to you.
3. Look for signs you’re in love with your soulmate
If he’s the one, he’ll prove it to you every day through his words, actions, and how he makes you feel.
And if you still need more proof, look for these 10 tell-tale signs you’re in love with your soulmate:
If you dig deep and take these steps, you’ll be able to your answers about whether he’s the one for you or whether he isn’t. If your guy fares well on these exercises, you’ll be able to put your doubts of “Is he the one?” to rest and enjoy the connection you have.
Either way, you’ll know.
What’s important is that you accept what your inner guidance is telling you and decide to move forward — by either loving your boyfriend with your whole heart if you decide he is the one, or making room for a true soulmate to come into your life.
Source: Beauty and Tips